My husband and I have experienced many losses over the past 8 years. But, by God's grace we know that our life that is found in Jesus Christ cannot ever be taken away from us.
I can shout a loud AMEN to this message!
Wednesday, April 16, 2014
Sunday, March 30, 2014
Love PEOPLE more than your SCHEDULE
It's hard to believe it's been over a month since my last post. I honestly thought it had been just a few weeks until I checked the date. It's true that we need the Lord's help to order our days because they vanish so quickly.
One reason I took a break from blogging was to pray about my schedule. I had been sensing that my priorities were getting out of whack. Some of it had to do with a huge focus on stretching my husband's disability check by doing a mountain load of frugal tasks. Secondly, I sensed that I was out of the home too much because I was not saying that little two letter word enough...'no'.
It's a hard balance to find... the one between what I think is important for my day and what others need of my time while not allowing my relationship with my husband (or other loved ones in the home) to be affected. I've always struggled in this area and at times I find it necessary to stop all my outside commitments (blogging fell under this category) and reevaluate what scripture says I should be doing with my days. So many things can tempt us to get our eyes off of our God given responsibilities and to make our schedules (or hobbies, jobs, ministry, leisure time, etc.) more important than our relationship with our husband (or our children at home).
I don't believe it's to be an all or nothing decision. I'm not commanded to stay home and serve my husband 24 hours a day with no concern for those in need outside my home. And the opposite is true ... I'm not commanded to just be a woman known for good works (crafter, excellent employee, ministry, fun friend) while letting my responsibility to those in my home slide by the wayside. I need God's wisdom to know how I should order my days.
Oftentimes, I hear from the Lord best on ordering my days by listening to my husband's praise AND his complaints. I perk my ears up anytime my husband has a complaint because oftentimes it will become my new marching orders for the next day. This past week I decided to not wash an extra load of his T shirts until I got a full load. I knew he still had enough T shirts in his drawer. Towards the end of the week he asked where all his T shirts were. I explained my plan to which he let me know that he preferred not wearing the T shirts in his drawer because they had no pocket. So the next morning my first duty was to get his load of T shirts going in the washing machine before I did anything else. Such a simple way to help schedule my day.
I'll be honest here and say that adapting to my husband's plans for my day isn't always easy for me. I love to plan my days and chock them full of a long list of things I'd like to get done. But, I'm finding that it doesn't always bless my relationship with him now that he is home full-time. He is so good to not push his schedule on me. Oftentimes, what ends up happening is that he will mention something needing to be done that I know he will have a hard time physically doing. So I'll tell him I will help him at 'such and such' time and then I forget about it because I'm focused on MY schedule. By the time I remember the day has come and gone and I feel awful about forgetting.
So I'm tying to remember to start my mornings by praying for the Lord's will that day in my schedule and to look out for my husband's interests, too. This is bearing good fruit in our relationship.
This week my husband wanted to expand our garden. It involved shoveling and I knew it would be too hard on him. I had already prayed that morning for opportunities to serve him so my heart was prepared to offer my help. God blessed our time together so much and somehow He ordered the rest of my day in a way that I was able to finish my own work.
Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others. Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus, who, though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied himself, by taking the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men.
Philippians 2:3-5 ESV
Pretty awesome, huh!
***
Here are a few things I've been doing in my home this past month:
1. I have a round button tin that I use for extra buttons. I've saved buttons off of old shirts for years. Some items of clothing will have extra buttons when purchased and I always save them. One of the tops I bought at a thrift store recently was missing 2 buttons. I took off all the buttons and replaced them with 7 matching buttons from my button tin and all it cost me was my time.
2. Spring has come to our neck of the woods and new little flowers are popping up throughout my flower garden. I'm taking notice which parts of my flower beds are needing color. I'm transplanting these new little flowers to other parts of the yard for splashes of color. This is one practice that helps to save money in my yard. I was tempted to buy some potted flowers at the nursery this past week but decided to be content with the flowers I have. My mother has some blue forget-me-nots coming up so I hope to snatch some of those for free.
3. Wow! Is this the year of BABIES? I'm on my 5th baby shower and loving it. I'm so thankful to have found the Nursing Cover pattern online. I think it makes a very practical and lovely gift. I just finished one nursing cover and have another one in the process.
4. It's spring and I'm on a mission to get rid of unused items in my home. I used to hold on to items I didn't use JUST IN CASE I might need it in the future. But, living in a 745 sq. ft. home has changed that practice. I don't have room to hold on to items I 'might' use some day. If I haven't used an item or worn it the past year then I'm getting rid of it and trusting God to provide if I need it in the future... or do without. I love the feeling of opening up a nice neat organized drawer and closet. An organized home also helps me save money because I know what I have on hand. And why hoard items when others might need them?
5. We have a nice crop of lettuce this spring so I've been making salads for most of my lunches. I make my own oil salad dressing because it's less expensive and healthier. I like the oil dressing recipe below that is also used for the Bacon and Asparagus Salad. I hope we can get another crop of lettuce planted before the heat hits. Lettuce is so expensive in the stores. It's very easy to grow and the seeds are inexpensive.
6. I've been craving this salad so I made it for my grandson's birthday party dinner. Yummmm!
1 1/2 lbs. fresh asparagus (blanched in boiling water for 3 minutes)
1/2 lb. bacon, cooked and crumbled
1/4 to 1/2 c. grated Parmesan cheese
1 tbsp. Dijon
4 tbsp. red wine vinegar
1 tsp. sugar (or other sweetener)
1/2 tsp. salt
1/2 tsp. ground black pepper
minced parsley
1 tsp. chopped shallots
1/2 c. olive oil
Put bacon on top of asparagus. Add dressing. Sprinkle with Parmesan cheese.
7. I've had fun at a few thrift shops lately. I found 4 blouses for $13. Two of the blouses were for next winter but sometimes it pays to not wait if you find a good deal. Rarely do I find what I'm looking for the first time around if I'm thrifting. I also found a food dehydrator for $9.99 and a yogurt maker for under $5. I've been wanting to make coconut milk yogurt but didn't want to pay full price for the machine. I had a 25% off coupon for both items. I keep my coupons in my purse or in the car otherwise they don't get used.
8. We ended up with about 12 heads of cabbage in our garden. I tried making one batch of sauerkraut in a quart jar. I shredded the cabbage and added 2 tablespoons of sea salt. I'm not comfortable with the way it turned out. I looks like a science experiment. :-) A few days after I started my sauerkraut a package arrived and guess what it was? A 'perfect pickler' from a sweet online friend who heard I was trying my hand at making sauerkraut. Thank you so much Mary! The cabbage turned out crunchy and yummy! I'm on my third batch. It's supposed to last for months in the fridge. I try to eat a little every day because I've heard that it has natural probiotics to help your gut flora.
9. I had some homemade tartar sauce left over so I mixed it into my oil and vinegar salad dressing. It was very good. Waste not, want not!
10. What I didn't throw away:
Georgene
One reason I took a break from blogging was to pray about my schedule. I had been sensing that my priorities were getting out of whack. Some of it had to do with a huge focus on stretching my husband's disability check by doing a mountain load of frugal tasks. Secondly, I sensed that I was out of the home too much because I was not saying that little two letter word enough...'no'.
It's a hard balance to find... the one between what I think is important for my day and what others need of my time while not allowing my relationship with my husband (or other loved ones in the home) to be affected. I've always struggled in this area and at times I find it necessary to stop all my outside commitments (blogging fell under this category) and reevaluate what scripture says I should be doing with my days. So many things can tempt us to get our eyes off of our God given responsibilities and to make our schedules (or hobbies, jobs, ministry, leisure time, etc.) more important than our relationship with our husband (or our children at home).
Oftentimes, I hear from the Lord best on ordering my days by listening to my husband's praise AND his complaints. I perk my ears up anytime my husband has a complaint because oftentimes it will become my new marching orders for the next day. This past week I decided to not wash an extra load of his T shirts until I got a full load. I knew he still had enough T shirts in his drawer. Towards the end of the week he asked where all his T shirts were. I explained my plan to which he let me know that he preferred not wearing the T shirts in his drawer because they had no pocket. So the next morning my first duty was to get his load of T shirts going in the washing machine before I did anything else. Such a simple way to help schedule my day.
I'll be honest here and say that adapting to my husband's plans for my day isn't always easy for me. I love to plan my days and chock them full of a long list of things I'd like to get done. But, I'm finding that it doesn't always bless my relationship with him now that he is home full-time. He is so good to not push his schedule on me. Oftentimes, what ends up happening is that he will mention something needing to be done that I know he will have a hard time physically doing. So I'll tell him I will help him at 'such and such' time and then I forget about it because I'm focused on MY schedule. By the time I remember the day has come and gone and I feel awful about forgetting.
So I'm tying to remember to start my mornings by praying for the Lord's will that day in my schedule and to look out for my husband's interests, too. This is bearing good fruit in our relationship.
This week my husband wanted to expand our garden. It involved shoveling and I knew it would be too hard on him. I had already prayed that morning for opportunities to serve him so my heart was prepared to offer my help. God blessed our time together so much and somehow He ordered the rest of my day in a way that I was able to finish my own work.
Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others. Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus, who, though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied himself, by taking the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men.
Philippians 2:3-5 ESV
Adapting to my husband daily reminds me of the gospel and how Christ came to lay His own life down for me. I can live out the gospel daily in my own home as I follow Christ and lay down my life for others, too.
For even the Son of Man
came not to be served
but to serve,
and to give his life
as a ransom for many.
Mark 10:45 ESV
Pretty awesome, huh!Here are a few things I've been doing in my home this past month:
1. I have a round button tin that I use for extra buttons. I've saved buttons off of old shirts for years. Some items of clothing will have extra buttons when purchased and I always save them. One of the tops I bought at a thrift store recently was missing 2 buttons. I took off all the buttons and replaced them with 7 matching buttons from my button tin and all it cost me was my time.
2. Spring has come to our neck of the woods and new little flowers are popping up throughout my flower garden. I'm taking notice which parts of my flower beds are needing color. I'm transplanting these new little flowers to other parts of the yard for splashes of color. This is one practice that helps to save money in my yard. I was tempted to buy some potted flowers at the nursery this past week but decided to be content with the flowers I have. My mother has some blue forget-me-nots coming up so I hope to snatch some of those for free.
3. Wow! Is this the year of BABIES? I'm on my 5th baby shower and loving it. I'm so thankful to have found the Nursing Cover pattern online. I think it makes a very practical and lovely gift. I just finished one nursing cover and have another one in the process.
Cabbage patch
4. It's spring and I'm on a mission to get rid of unused items in my home. I used to hold on to items I didn't use JUST IN CASE I might need it in the future. But, living in a 745 sq. ft. home has changed that practice. I don't have room to hold on to items I 'might' use some day. If I haven't used an item or worn it the past year then I'm getting rid of it and trusting God to provide if I need it in the future... or do without. I love the feeling of opening up a nice neat organized drawer and closet. An organized home also helps me save money because I know what I have on hand. And why hoard items when others might need them?
5. We have a nice crop of lettuce this spring so I've been making salads for most of my lunches. I make my own oil salad dressing because it's less expensive and healthier. I like the oil dressing recipe below that is also used for the Bacon and Asparagus Salad. I hope we can get another crop of lettuce planted before the heat hits. Lettuce is so expensive in the stores. It's very easy to grow and the seeds are inexpensive.
6. I've been craving this salad so I made it for my grandson's birthday party dinner. Yummmm!
Bacon and Asparagus Salad by Miss Alycia (my daughter in love)
1 1/2 lbs. fresh asparagus (blanched in boiling water for 3 minutes)
1/2 lb. bacon, cooked and crumbled
1/4 to 1/2 c. grated Parmesan cheese
1 tbsp. Dijon
4 tbsp. red wine vinegar
1 tsp. sugar (or other sweetener)
1/2 tsp. salt
1/2 tsp. ground black pepper
minced parsley
1 tsp. chopped shallots
1/2 c. olive oil
Put bacon on top of asparagus. Add dressing. Sprinkle with Parmesan cheese.
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| Beating the cabbage in my Kitchen Aid to create the brine for sauerkraut. |
10. What I didn't throw away:
- Cotton from a vitamin bottle. (Used instead of cotton ball for astringent and fingernail polish remover).
- Recipe cards. (I didn't like the recipe so I'll use the back for note paper).
- 2013 bills invoices/ paperwork cut in 1/4's for scrap paper.
- Rubber bands around asparagus.
- 2013 paperwork that was not blank on the back. (Shredded and thrown on compost).
- Paper bags from grocery store. (I save these to ripen fruit).
So much more going on in my days but nothing noteworthy enough to mention. I've missed hearing about your days ladies! How have you been and what have you been up to?
Blessed to be home,
Georgene
Friday, February 7, 2014
A Prayerful Break...
This blog has followed a journey the Lord started nearly 8 years ago when The Great Recession hit our nation and my family. We went through many years of loss but I hope it's been evident to those who have followed OUR STORY that we have been blessed daily and God has provided for us abundantly as our income decreased to nearly a fourth. This blog shared many of the lessons the Lord taught me on how to stretch my husband's disability check to meet our needs by living on less.
I've been sensing a nudging lately. Maybe it could even be described as a conviction ... to evaluate how and where I am spending my time. Is everything I do to the best of my ability for the glory of God? or for my glory? Do I really want to be known as a frugal, penny pinching woman or a woman who follows Christ who happens to use thriftiness as a means to a better end? Am I seeking to love God with ALL my mind and ALL my strength in my daily schedule?
The days are short. My life will not last forever. God has ordained how many breaths I have left. If today were my last day on this earth would I have regrets that I had not listened more intently to those convictions that were leading me towards a more God-focused life?
Of course, I will never be perfect in how I choose my time but I am responsible for my choices and my actions and with all my heart I want to bring Him glory in all I choose to do.
I love how John Piper unravels what it means to live for God's glory. You can read about it here.
I can't imagine I will stop writing completely. So I hope you will remember me in prayer as I seek His face in the coming days and months as His plan uncovers the next step in this marvelous journey called life.
Please keep in touch... and stay tuned!
May we live (coram Deo) before the face of God!
Georgene
I've been sensing a nudging lately. Maybe it could even be described as a conviction ... to evaluate how and where I am spending my time. Is everything I do to the best of my ability for the glory of God? or for my glory? Do I really want to be known as a frugal, penny pinching woman or a woman who follows Christ who happens to use thriftiness as a means to a better end? Am I seeking to love God with ALL my mind and ALL my strength in my daily schedule?
Therefore be careful how you walk,
not as unwise men but as wise,
making the most of your time,
because the days are evil.
Ephesians 5:15-16 ESV
The days are short. My life will not last forever. God has ordained how many breaths I have left. If today were my last day on this earth would I have regrets that I had not listened more intently to those convictions that were leading me towards a more God-focused life?
Of course, I will never be perfect in how I choose my time but I am responsible for my choices and my actions and with all my heart I want to bring Him glory in all I choose to do.
I love how John Piper unravels what it means to live for God's glory. You can read about it here.
I can't imagine I will stop writing completely. So I hope you will remember me in prayer as I seek His face in the coming days and months as His plan uncovers the next step in this marvelous journey called life.
Please keep in touch... and stay tuned!
Georgene
Sunday, February 2, 2014
Ordering our Days
Our days are full of choices from the moment we wake up until our head hits the pillow at night. Choices as to how we will spend our minutes... minutes that run into hours... and hours that accumulate into days. Each choice can lead us towards a goal or hinder. It's so important to live life with God's glory in mind.
Years ago I attended a bible study that encouraged us to write a yearly mission statement using only Scripture. From the mission statement we would then write out a yearly, monthly, weekly and finally a daily schedule. This practice was a tool ...
So teach us to number our days that we may get a heart of wisdom.
I haven't made a mission statement in years but I do find myself mentally evaluating my daily choices and how I am spending my days. When life gets so hectic that I find the order of my days upset and my relationships strained then it's time to look at the choices I'm making each day and how I'm spending my time.
For instance, if I cram too many outside activities in to my week (shopping, church activities, visiting friends) then it can affect my relationship with my husband. How you may ask? *smile* When I am gone too many days from my home then I get behind in my work. If get too far behind in my house work,laundry and dishes then I am tempted to being anxious. When I'm tempted to be anxious then it can affect how patient I am with my husband. When I'm impatient with my husband... well you get the point! *smile* One unwise choice can lead to other unwise choices which can ultimately affect the important relationships in my life.
I also find that I'm tempted to not spend time with the Lord in the mornings if I'm behind in my daily work or too busy outside my home. Spending time studying God's Word is one of the greatest joys in my life and I want to keep it as a top priority. I have to plan to set aside this time otherwise it doesn't just happen.
It's to be expected that busy times will come in our lives. It's unavoidable. Family members will need help when they are sick or moving or we will have days when we are helping with the grandchildren. As a result we will get behind with our work at home and that's okay. Our work at home should never be an end all of itself. It's only when we are making unwise daily choices that become an established pattern that consistently affects our relationships that we need to consider making some changes. Or if our house is so out of order that we cannot fulfill the command to be hospitable.
I need God's wisdom to know how to order my days to bring Him glory. Isn't it wonderful that we just have to ask and He freely gives it?
If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him. James 1:5,6
***
Any extra minutes are being spent working on my paid projects. Here are a few things though that I did this week in my home:
1. I have a very small closet compared to the ones in the newer homes. I've been blessed with some hand-me-downs but now my closet is crammed full. It's a good thing. I took most of my clothes out and started sorting to see what I really had. I made separate piles of long pants, caprices, tank tops, short and long sleeve tops, skirts and dresses. I got rid of 1 box and 1 bag of clothing. It feels so good to open the closet and see it neat and organized. It's good to bless others with my overflow rather than hanging on to unused items.
2. I bought a different kind of mayo on sale and just didn't care for it at all. So, instead of letting it go to waste I have been using it in recipes where you can't taste the difference. This week I made a Low Carb Chocolate Mayo Cake and also a banana bread recipe for my mother.
3. We harvested a very large head of cauliflower from the garden. I melted some coconut oil on a cookie sheet in the oven and then tossed the cauliflower in the oil with some garlic salt and pepper. Baked at 350 for 30 minutes. (Thank you Pam!) It was yummy!
4. As I said above...I was given a large bag of clothes. Some of the tops were cute but too big so I ran a seam down the side and they fit just perfect. I love FREE.
5. I made another batch of homemade laundry detergent. The last batch lasted for months and months. I've been making the Duggar's Laundry Soap recipe this year. I just don't water it down as much as they do. It saves me so much money.
1 c. Washing Soda (not baking soda)
1/2 c. Borax
1. Grate bar. Add to water.
2. Melt over low heat.
3. Fill 5 gallon bucket 1/2 full with hot water.
4. Add above mixture. Stir till dissolved.
5. Fill bucket to top with hot water.
6. Stir and let set over night.
The Duggar's fill a used laundry soap dispenser 1/2 full of soap and the rest with water. You can add 10-15 drops of essential oil per 2 gallons once cooled. I tried this once
but the smell evaporated.
6. A friend gave me some leftover pieces of stained glass window film. I put it on the glass panes in our door. It gives privacy, looks lovely and was free. Thank you Yvonne!
7. I made Pumpkin Pie Spice again for my Low Carb Pumpkin Pie recipe. I had these spices on hand so I didn't have to run to the store to buy a special blended spice.
8. Items I saved this week:
Years ago I attended a bible study that encouraged us to write a yearly mission statement using only Scripture. From the mission statement we would then write out a yearly, monthly, weekly and finally a daily schedule. This practice was a tool ...
So teach us to number our days that we may get a heart of wisdom.
Psalm 90:12
So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.
1 Corinthians 10:31
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| Sweet Peas and cabbage |
For instance, if I cram too many outside activities in to my week (shopping, church activities, visiting friends) then it can affect my relationship with my husband. How you may ask? *smile* When I am gone too many days from my home then I get behind in my work. If get too far behind in my house work,laundry and dishes then I am tempted to being anxious. When I'm tempted to be anxious then it can affect how patient I am with my husband. When I'm impatient with my husband... well you get the point! *smile* One unwise choice can lead to other unwise choices which can ultimately affect the important relationships in my life.
I also find that I'm tempted to not spend time with the Lord in the mornings if I'm behind in my daily work or too busy outside my home. Spending time studying God's Word is one of the greatest joys in my life and I want to keep it as a top priority. I have to plan to set aside this time otherwise it doesn't just happen.
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| It's such an old plant but I just hate to pull it out while it still tries to bloom. |
It's to be expected that busy times will come in our lives. It's unavoidable. Family members will need help when they are sick or moving or we will have days when we are helping with the grandchildren. As a result we will get behind with our work at home and that's okay. Our work at home should never be an end all of itself. It's only when we are making unwise daily choices that become an established pattern that consistently affects our relationships that we need to consider making some changes. Or if our house is so out of order that we cannot fulfill the command to be hospitable.
I need God's wisdom to know how to order my days to bring Him glory. Isn't it wonderful that we just have to ask and He freely gives it?
If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him. James 1:5,6
***
Any extra minutes are being spent working on my paid projects. Here are a few things though that I did this week in my home:
1. I have a very small closet compared to the ones in the newer homes. I've been blessed with some hand-me-downs but now my closet is crammed full. It's a good thing. I took most of my clothes out and started sorting to see what I really had. I made separate piles of long pants, caprices, tank tops, short and long sleeve tops, skirts and dresses. I got rid of 1 box and 1 bag of clothing. It feels so good to open the closet and see it neat and organized. It's good to bless others with my overflow rather than hanging on to unused items.
2. I bought a different kind of mayo on sale and just didn't care for it at all. So, instead of letting it go to waste I have been using it in recipes where you can't taste the difference. This week I made a Low Carb Chocolate Mayo Cake and also a banana bread recipe for my mother.
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| I got this picture too late last week to post. My son & his family giving up his day to build our fence. |
3. We harvested a very large head of cauliflower from the garden. I melted some coconut oil on a cookie sheet in the oven and then tossed the cauliflower in the oil with some garlic salt and pepper. Baked at 350 for 30 minutes. (Thank you Pam!) It was yummy!
4. As I said above...I was given a large bag of clothes. Some of the tops were cute but too big so I ran a seam down the side and they fit just perfect. I love FREE.
5. I made another batch of homemade laundry detergent. The last batch lasted for months and months. I've been making the Duggar's Laundry Soap recipe this year. I just don't water it down as much as they do. It saves me so much money.
Duggar's Laundry Detergent
4 c. hot water
1 Fels Naptha Bar soap, grated1 c. Washing Soda (not baking soda)
1/2 c. Borax
1. Grate bar. Add to water.
2. Melt over low heat.
3. Fill 5 gallon bucket 1/2 full with hot water.
4. Add above mixture. Stir till dissolved.
5. Fill bucket to top with hot water.
6. Stir and let set over night.
The Duggar's fill a used laundry soap dispenser 1/2 full of soap and the rest with water. You can add 10-15 drops of essential oil per 2 gallons once cooled. I tried this once
but the smell evaporated.
7. I made Pumpkin Pie Spice again for my Low Carb Pumpkin Pie recipe. I had these spices on hand so I didn't have to run to the store to buy a special blended spice.
Pumpkin Pie
Crust
3/4 c. flaxmeal ground
1/4 c. sunflower seed flour
1 tsp. cinnamon
2 tbsp. oil or butter (I used coconut oil)
2 tbsp. cold water
Press into 9 inch pie dish. Bake 12 minutes at 350 degrees.
Pie Filling
2 c. homemade pumpkin (or 15 oz. canned) pumpkin
1 c. coconut milk (or other liquid)
2 eggs
1/3 c. Truvia (I used 1/3 c. Erythritol and 1/4 tsp. Kal Stevia. You can find a link above)
1 tbsp. pumpkin pie spice
Dash of salt.
Mix together. Taste to see if it's sweet enough and adjust sweeteners accordingly. Bake 45 minutes at 350 degrees.
Pumpkin Pie Spice
1 tsp. cinnamon
1/4 tsp. nutmeg
1/4 tsp. ginger
1/8 tsp. ground cloves
8. Items I saved this week:
- Low carb tortilla bag (reuse as a baggie)
- Frozen strawberry bag (reuse as a baggie)
- Rubber bands from radishes
- Erythritol bag (reuse as baggie)
- Plastic bags with zippers that curtains came in. (I'll reuse to hold projects that are partially done so I can see what is in the bag).
- Cracker bag (reuse as baggie)
That's it for this week. So do you gals ever have trouble keeping your priorities straight? Any suggestions?
Blessed to be home!
Georgene
Georgene
Saturday, January 25, 2014
Cooking in stages
If I want to stretch my grocery budget then it's necessary to cook from scratch which means time spent in the kitchen. The closer I get to 60 years old the less I'm enjoying all day cooking marathons. As a result I'm finding it helpful to do the heavier workload in the mornings and to stretch out my cooking over the day or week. I like to keep the sit down jobs for the afternoon so I'll work in the office or on my sewing projects.
When my children were home I used to do Once a Month Cooking. I'd make up my monthly menu of dinner meals and then spend a day or two cooking and freezing meals. It was so nice to just pull a dinner out of the freezer and just add a salad and veggie. This way of cooking came in very handy when we were homeschooling and running a home business.
I've started cooking lunch/dinner for my children and their families once a month. We've wanted to do this for years but all we did was talk about it. So now it's on the calendar. I've chosen to do the cooking to give my girls a break. So cooking as much ahead of time comes in very handy.
Here was this month's menu. Mind you ... this is not how we normally eat but it makes my husband happy to splurge once a month.
Ham
Make ahead mashed potatoes
Smothered Green Beans
Strawberry Pretzel Salad
Mom's bean dish
Fresh baked bread (from bakery)
Chocolate chip cookies
German Chocolate Cake
Ice Cream (from store)
I knew that I wouldn't be able to spend time cooking on Saturday since my son and his family were rebuilding our backyard fence. So I split up the cooking and baking over the week which made it possible to help with the fence work AND go to church on Sunday morning AND have dinner ready for the family after church (I took a nap on Monday! *SMILE*
Here is how I spread out the cooking over the week:
Monday: Baked the cake and then froze it. I'll frost it later in the week.
Tuesday: Mixed the ketchup and other wet ingredients for the bean dish and stored in fridge.
Wednesday: Made the chocolate chip dough, rolled in balls and froze them.
Friday: Assembled the "Make Ahead Potatoes" which can stay in the fridge up to 3 days. Fried the pound of bacon (saved 1/2 for the green beans), hamburger and onion for the bean dish. Baked the pretzel crust for the jello salad.
Saturday: Finished assembling the jello salad. Baked the chocolate chip cookies. Cooked the frosting and frosted the cake and then wrapped it well in Seran wrap.
Sunday: Sauteed the green beans, added the rest of the ingredients including the bacon. Baked the ham. Heated up all the ingredients for the bean dish and put in the crock pot to keep warm. Pulled out the Make Ahead Potatoes an hour before they were going in the oven (so I wouldn't crack the glass) and then baked 30 minutes before the meal.
All the weekly preps made the dinner on Sunday so much easier.
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Here are a few highlights of the week:
1. I trim as many of my trees as I can to save money. This week I started trimming the Crepe Myrtles. I trim a little at a time over a period of a week so that I don't end up with bad neck pain. It works great! I also trimmed my rose bushes and cut back a few of the other flower plants. I need to research how to trim back the berry and grape bushes.
2. The collard greens and spinach seedlings were ready to plant. A friend gave us some big cement blocks that we used to line one of our garden plots. I placed one of our 4 x 6 glass window frames on top of the blocks to make a mini green house over the collard greens and spinach.
3. My husband doesn't care for the sugar free pancake syrups in the store. This morning I made a sugar free fruit syrup for our pancakes. He liked the fruit syrup even though he doesn't like my low carb pancakes. :-) . Tomorrow morning I'll try a new recipe that hopefully he will like. (update: He said they were better but still not the same as high carb pancakes.) I keep trying and sometimes I find a winner!
When my children were home I used to do Once a Month Cooking. I'd make up my monthly menu of dinner meals and then spend a day or two cooking and freezing meals. It was so nice to just pull a dinner out of the freezer and just add a salad and veggie. This way of cooking came in very handy when we were homeschooling and running a home business.
I've started cooking lunch/dinner for my children and their families once a month. We've wanted to do this for years but all we did was talk about it. So now it's on the calendar. I've chosen to do the cooking to give my girls a break. So cooking as much ahead of time comes in very handy.
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| My camellias are in bloom! |
Here was this month's menu. Mind you ... this is not how we normally eat but it makes my husband happy to splurge once a month.
Ham
Make ahead mashed potatoes
Smothered Green Beans
Strawberry Pretzel Salad
Mom's bean dish
Fresh baked bread (from bakery)
Chocolate chip cookies
German Chocolate Cake
Ice Cream (from store)
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| Our beautiful fence that my son and his family built for us! A huge thank you to each of you! |
I knew that I wouldn't be able to spend time cooking on Saturday since my son and his family were rebuilding our backyard fence. So I split up the cooking and baking over the week which made it possible to help with the fence work AND go to church on Sunday morning AND have dinner ready for the family after church (I took a nap on Monday! *SMILE*
Here is how I spread out the cooking over the week:
Monday: Baked the cake and then froze it. I'll frost it later in the week.
Tuesday: Mixed the ketchup and other wet ingredients for the bean dish and stored in fridge.
Wednesday: Made the chocolate chip dough, rolled in balls and froze them.
Friday: Assembled the "Make Ahead Potatoes" which can stay in the fridge up to 3 days. Fried the pound of bacon (saved 1/2 for the green beans), hamburger and onion for the bean dish. Baked the pretzel crust for the jello salad.
Saturday: Finished assembling the jello salad. Baked the chocolate chip cookies. Cooked the frosting and frosted the cake and then wrapped it well in Seran wrap.
Sunday: Sauteed the green beans, added the rest of the ingredients including the bacon. Baked the ham. Heated up all the ingredients for the bean dish and put in the crock pot to keep warm. Pulled out the Make Ahead Potatoes an hour before they were going in the oven (so I wouldn't crack the glass) and then baked 30 minutes before the meal.
All the weekly preps made the dinner on Sunday so much easier.
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| Relaxing, full tummies & messiness! Priceless! |
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Here are a few highlights of the week:
1. I trim as many of my trees as I can to save money. This week I started trimming the Crepe Myrtles. I trim a little at a time over a period of a week so that I don't end up with bad neck pain. It works great! I also trimmed my rose bushes and cut back a few of the other flower plants. I need to research how to trim back the berry and grape bushes.
2. The collard greens and spinach seedlings were ready to plant. A friend gave us some big cement blocks that we used to line one of our garden plots. I placed one of our 4 x 6 glass window frames on top of the blocks to make a mini green house over the collard greens and spinach.
3. My husband doesn't care for the sugar free pancake syrups in the store. This morning I made a sugar free fruit syrup for our pancakes. He liked the fruit syrup even though he doesn't like my low carb pancakes. :-) . Tomorrow morning I'll try a new recipe that hopefully he will like. (update: He said they were better but still not the same as high carb pancakes.) I keep trying and sometimes I find a winner!
Sugar Free Fruit Pancake Syrup
1 cup water
1/2 c. Erythritol
1/4 tsp. Stevia
2 cups fruit (I used frozen blackberries, blueberry, raspberry)
1/2 tsp. glucomanni powder
Boil water and dissolve Erythritol. Mix in fruit and boil 10 minutes.
1/2 c. Erythritol
1/4 tsp. Stevia
2 cups fruit (I used frozen blackberries, blueberry, raspberry)
1/2 tsp. glucomanni powder
Boil water and dissolve Erythritol. Mix in fruit and boil 10 minutes.
Add glucomanni in a little water and whisk into mixture. Simmer
10 more minutes until thickened.
10 more minutes until thickened.
4. A friend saved her meat and veggie scraps for me. What a sweetie! I'm using them to make dog food.
5. The weather has been nice enough that I can hang clothes on the line. If I get them hung first thing in the morning then they are dry by dinner time.
6. I made a big pot of ham and veggie soup. I used bits of ham from Sunday's dinner and threw in cabbage, Swiss chard, celery, onions, garlic and carrots. I added chicken bouillon to taste and some pepper. It didn't need much else. I love soup!
7. Another friend gave me a box of canning jars! Thank you, thank you! Canning season is right around the corner. I have been picking up Sugar Free pectin on sale for jam. Next month I'll start buying a few boxes of canning lids each month. It's easier on the pocketbook to buy a few each paycheck rather than all at once.
8. I saved the fence boards we replaced on the backyard fence. There are so many things you can do with old fence boards from lining a wall to making furniture or bird houses for gifts.
9. I purchased quite a few cloth hankies a few years back when our income started to drop. I also saved a Kleenex box to store a few cloth hankies in next to my bed. I carry a hankie in my purse and keep them in my bedroom drawer and in the office. Anytime I can use cloth and rewash instead of a disposable it saves me money.
10. I purchased a computer diagnostic tool for our particular vehicle. It cost around $39. We had a 'check engine' light go on and with this tool we were able to look up the code to see what was wrong. It was something that could be easily fixed at home and saved us an expensive trip to an auto mechanic.
Georgene
9. I purchased quite a few cloth hankies a few years back when our income started to drop. I also saved a Kleenex box to store a few cloth hankies in next to my bed. I carry a hankie in my purse and keep them in my bedroom drawer and in the office. Anytime I can use cloth and rewash instead of a disposable it saves me money.
10. I purchased a computer diagnostic tool for our particular vehicle. It cost around $39. We had a 'check engine' light go on and with this tool we were able to look up the code to see what was wrong. It was something that could be easily fixed at home and saved us an expensive trip to an auto mechanic.
Thank you ladies for your advice on inexpensive moisturizers last week. Since I had coconut oil in the house I went ahead and started using it on my skin. So far I'm lovin' it! Thanks again!
Did you ladies enjoy your week? Did you do anything new and frugal?
Blessed to be home!
Georgene
Friday, January 17, 2014
Making Money at Home!
I've been blessed with quite a few paid projects I can do in my own home. I am so thankful! I finished 2 of the smaller projects this week.
It's hard to believe I don't have to work outside my home for the time being. I've been home most of our married life until the recession and then my husband's disability changed our financial situation. I only worked part time and was thankful for the jobs the Lord provided but my heart always longed to be home. It's hard on a woman to work outside the home but sometimes a necessity. Things could change but it looks hopeful that I won't have to work outside my home in the near future. That is important to my husband and I. We both know from experience that our home is more peaceful when I'm not under the stress of outside work. So I continue to do my part by saving and stretching our income. Laine taught me years ago to consider it my part time job.
Here are the paid jobs I'm working on now from my own home:
~ 2 microwave Neck Rolls (finished)
~ A bag for a wheelchair (finished)
~ Apron
~ Kitchen Aide Cover
~ Editing a dissertation
~ Organizing a ladies receipts for taxes
~ Took in the seams on a family member's pants (finished)
There are so many things a wife can do to make money from home if that is her desire. Some women enjoy working outside the home. Each family must make it's own decision. But, if you truly want to be home you may be able to find ways to make money without leaving your house. Working from home may save you gas money, clothing expense, child care, lunch expenses and any fast food expenses from being too tired to cook.
Over my years as a homemaker I have done a long list of jobs such as:
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Here are just a few things I did at home this week:
1. A penny saved is a penny earned and that is one way I look at mending. If I can make our clothes last longer then it saves money (or a penny) because I don't have to buy new ones. I mended a hole in my husband's sock and also mended some sweat pants.
2. I finished cracking the pecans that were given to me months ago. I'm so thankful for any kind of free nuts because they are so expensive in the stores. I'll use them in my daughter in love's cake this weekend along with the German chocolate I found at an outlet for a dollar. I stocked up on a few boxes and put them in the freezer.
3. I like to collect new recipes. I was given this recipe for Salsbury Steak from a helpful gal over at Low Carb Friends. We liked it. I was short one patty for a second meal so next time I'll make thinner patties. It's fast and easy to make.
4. I was so busy during December that I didn't make a menu. My grocery budget suffered because of it. So, I spent a half an hour making a 2 week dinner menu tonight. I went through my freezer to see what meat I had on hand and checked my pantry and freezer for vegetables on hand.
5. I froze the gizzard and neck from the turkey I cooked in December. I boiled them this week and I'm chopping a little every day to put in my dog's food. She loves it!
6. I saw a recipe using a bag of broccoli slaw and it reminded me of coleslaw so I made my own version. It was yummy! I've tried all kinds of recipes for coleslaw dressing but these days I just use 1 cup of mayo, 1 tbsp. sweetener (I use Erythritol) and 1 tbsp. vinegar. I added a few cranberries and pecans to the slaw.
Broccoli slaw
1 bag of broccoli slaw
1 cup mayo
1 tbsp. vinegar
1 tbsp sugar of Erythritol (or sugar)
Handful of dried cranberries
Handful of salted sunflower seeds or pecans or pistachios
Mix the vinegar and sugar into the mayo and then mix in the slaw. Add cranberries and nuts.
Here is another recipe I made this week. It's a keeper! I think we'd really like it on the grill, too.
Chipotle Chicken
This chicken was very good and very spicy! My husband really liked it!
1 medium can of Chipotle peppers in Adobe
1 can of water
1 tbsp. vinegar
1 tbsp. garlic powder
1 tsp. salt (Kosher salt if you have it)
5 pounds of drumsticks (I used chicken legs and thighs)
Blend peppers and water and seasonings. Use 1/2 of the mixture and freeze the rest for another time or use some in your mayo for sandwiches. Marinate an hour to overnight. (I marinated overnight). Grill or bake on a tin foiled rack in a pan at 400 degrees for 45 minutes or until done. Rotate half way through.
7. Savemart was giving away free flowers today. I was blessed with a dozen red roses! Each day is full of God's little gifts to us if we choose to see.
8. Washed my own car and paid myself $8 instead of the car wash. I really dread washing the car in the winter months but the weather has been pretty mild this week so it wasn't too bad. I've never timed it but I can't imagine it taking any longer than 15 minutes. Pretty good pay for the time invested.
9. I haven't been to the thrift store in a few months so I stopped in this week and found a winter and summer blouse. I had a 25% off coupon. I paid $5.23 total for 2 blouses. I can't see the sense in buying new clothes to wear around the house for everyday when I can find them so inexpensively at the thrift store.
10. Things I didn't throw away:
Georgene
It's hard to believe I don't have to work outside my home for the time being. I've been home most of our married life until the recession and then my husband's disability changed our financial situation. I only worked part time and was thankful for the jobs the Lord provided but my heart always longed to be home. It's hard on a woman to work outside the home but sometimes a necessity. Things could change but it looks hopeful that I won't have to work outside my home in the near future. That is important to my husband and I. We both know from experience that our home is more peaceful when I'm not under the stress of outside work. So I continue to do my part by saving and stretching our income. Laine taught me years ago to consider it my part time job.
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| Our first and only cauliflower this year! It was huge! |
Here are the paid jobs I'm working on now from my own home:
~ 2 microwave Neck Rolls (finished)
~ A bag for a wheelchair (finished)
~ Apron
~ Kitchen Aide Cover
~ Editing a dissertation
~ Organizing a ladies receipts for taxes
~ Took in the seams on a family member's pants (finished)
Over my years as a homemaker I have done a long list of jobs such as:
- Sewed doll clothes and sold them at a beauty shop.
- Babysitting (Before and after childcare along with full and part time sitting)
- Foster care
- Typing
- Ironing
- I tested Crewel kits
- Sewing Projects
- Addressed envelopes
- I ran a used curriculum bookstore from our home for 10 years
- Managed a group of duplexes while receiving free rent in exchange. I also made money on the side by cleaning and painting them.
I still strongly believe the best way to make money at home is to stretch the money that is already coming in.
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Here are just a few things I did at home this week:
1. A penny saved is a penny earned and that is one way I look at mending. If I can make our clothes last longer then it saves money (or a penny) because I don't have to buy new ones. I mended a hole in my husband's sock and also mended some sweat pants.
2. I finished cracking the pecans that were given to me months ago. I'm so thankful for any kind of free nuts because they are so expensive in the stores. I'll use them in my daughter in love's cake this weekend along with the German chocolate I found at an outlet for a dollar. I stocked up on a few boxes and put them in the freezer.
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| Sweet peas and cabbage |
4. I was so busy during December that I didn't make a menu. My grocery budget suffered because of it. So, I spent a half an hour making a 2 week dinner menu tonight. I went through my freezer to see what meat I had on hand and checked my pantry and freezer for vegetables on hand.
5. I froze the gizzard and neck from the turkey I cooked in December. I boiled them this week and I'm chopping a little every day to put in my dog's food. She loves it!
6. I saw a recipe using a bag of broccoli slaw and it reminded me of coleslaw so I made my own version. It was yummy! I've tried all kinds of recipes for coleslaw dressing but these days I just use 1 cup of mayo, 1 tbsp. sweetener (I use Erythritol) and 1 tbsp. vinegar. I added a few cranberries and pecans to the slaw.
Broccoli slaw
1 bag of broccoli slaw
1 cup mayo
1 tbsp. vinegar
1 tbsp sugar of Erythritol (or sugar)
Handful of dried cranberries
Handful of salted sunflower seeds or pecans or pistachios
Mix the vinegar and sugar into the mayo and then mix in the slaw. Add cranberries and nuts.
Chipotle Chicken
This chicken was very good and very spicy! My husband really liked it!
1 medium can of Chipotle peppers in Adobe
1 can of water
1 tbsp. vinegar
1 tbsp. garlic powder
1 tsp. salt (Kosher salt if you have it)
5 pounds of drumsticks (I used chicken legs and thighs)
Blend peppers and water and seasonings. Use 1/2 of the mixture and freeze the rest for another time or use some in your mayo for sandwiches. Marinate an hour to overnight. (I marinated overnight). Grill or bake on a tin foiled rack in a pan at 400 degrees for 45 minutes or until done. Rotate half way through.
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| Lettuce is so easy to grow and so inexpensive if grown by seed! |
8. Washed my own car and paid myself $8 instead of the car wash. I really dread washing the car in the winter months but the weather has been pretty mild this week so it wasn't too bad. I've never timed it but I can't imagine it taking any longer than 15 minutes. Pretty good pay for the time invested.
9. I haven't been to the thrift store in a few months so I stopped in this week and found a winter and summer blouse. I had a 25% off coupon. I paid $5.23 total for 2 blouses. I can't see the sense in buying new clothes to wear around the house for everyday when I can find them so inexpensively at the thrift store.
10. Things I didn't throw away:
- Saved rubber bands off of the free flowers
- Plastic salad bag (washed and reuse as a baggie)
- Plastic wrap over mushrooms (reused as seran on sauteed mushrooms)
- Mayonnaise jar (Use to drain grease from a roast in before throwing in the garbage)
- Plastic shopping bags (reused as a garbage can liner)
That's it for this week. My son and daughter in love will be here tomorrow to help us rebuild our fence that is falling apart in the backyard. YAY!
So I have a question to ask you ladies. What do you use as an inexpensive (but effective) facial cleanser and moisturizer? I need some ideas. I used to pay $50 for the kit at Bath and Body Works but I don't want to spend that kind of money again.
Blessed to be home,
Georgene
Friday, January 10, 2014
A Baby Shower Devotional and Priorities
I hope you don't mind if I take a small detour today and share a devotional I'll be giving at a baby shower this weekend. I've often wondered if you think that I live and breathe to stretch a penny. It must seem like it at times since that is the focus of this blog. There have been seasons when frugality had a greater focus because it was essential that I learn all I could to stretch our downsized paycheck. Today I try to see being thrifty in the same light as I would a part time job and I pray that it never ranks above loving God and others.
So it delights my heart to be able to share something else this week. :-) My money saving week is posted at the end!
~ Since I shared a baby devotional with you I thought I'd share the nursing covers I made. These are fun to make! They take 1 yard of material plus an 1/8 of a yard if you want a contrasting color at the bottom. I bought a package of baby washcloths at the dollar store and sewed one into the corner to wipe babies mouth. I found the boning at Joann's. I used a 40 % coupon which helped with the cost of this project making it very affordable. I used this tutorial:
~ I was given approximately 7 boxes of material. Most was older material and not suited for clothing but would make nice quilts. Since I already have 3 quilts that need to be finished I didn't save those pieces but passed them on to the church for their Mexico missions. I saved 3 large pieces of polyester to use as protective coverings for chairs in my office (where Miss Sassy has been filing her claws! uh hem!) and quite a few nice cotton pieces to make everyday aprons. My aprons are terribly stained! The material was a huge blessing!
So it delights my heart to be able to share something else this week. :-) My money saving week is posted at the end!
Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord,
the fruit of the womb a reward.
Psalm 127:3
the fruit of the womb a reward.
Psalm 127:3
We
are all so excited for you, Jenny, and ready to meet your baby. I
haven't known you very long but long enough to know that God's Word is
important to you because I've heard you quote Scripture many times in
our Bible study class. Praise God for mothers who know and love God's
Word.
You have been blessed Jenny with a life that has been woven inside you by the very hand of God. Your baby is being fearfully and wonderfully made. All of his days are written in God's book before he even takes his first breath. Imagine this! There is an eternal, living soul created inside you. God says that children are a heritage of the Lord and the fruit of the womb a reward in Psalm 127:3. God has abundantly blessed you with not one but FIVE blessings! Praise God for His goodness!
As Christian mothers we often hope that our parenting will positively effect the outcome of our children. We hope that if we are consistently patient and understanding or if we can teach them enough scripture then we can love these babies into the kingdom of God. But, it doesn't take long into our parenting to realize that we fail the test daily. Although we are filled with such love and delight in these darlings beyond anything we could have ever imagined we acknowledge that the daily training can be physically and mentally exhausting. Our patience is tried by sleepless nights when our babies are young and possible sleepless nights again when they are teens. A mother's day is filled with fat little chubby squeezes and slobbery kisses but along with those joys come the endless mounds of laundry, dishes, runny noses and a million questions. If we put our hope in our parenting then we will soon become discouraged. But oh what hope we find when our trust and confidence is built on Jesus who calls Himself the author and the finisher of our faith and of our children.
If we are graded on a curve and compare ourselves to other mothers we will always find those who are more patient and consistent in their training than we are. If we compare our children to other children we will surely find those who follow harder after Christ. Most importantly, if we are graded instead on an absolute scale of God’s law—as I believe scripture teaches—we fall short 100% of the time. Even our best efforts at parenting are as filthy rags, dare I say it, a dirty diaper.
The knowledge of our imperfect parenting does not mean that we throw up our arms in despair and say 'why even try?' It means we put first things first when we acknowledge we can do nothing apart from Him as it says in John 15:5. That is why Jesus came to die in our place and give us His perfect record of obedience... because we could never obey the law perfectly to satisfy God's holy requirements. What hope that brings because now my eyes are firmly placed on the only One who can really change a child's heart ... Jesus!
There are many examples in Scripture of parents who BY FAITH put their trust in an all sovereign, wise and powerful God to do what no parent could!
By faith Noah, being warned by God concerning events as yet unseen, in reverent fear constructed an ark for the saving of his household. Hebrews 11:7
By faith Moses, when he was born, was hidden for three months by his parents, because they saw that the child was beautiful, and they were not afraid of the king’s edict. Hebrews 11:23
By faith Isaac blessed Jacob and Esau in regard to their future. Hebrews 11:20
Children will humble us and bring us to our knees so that the Lord’s power can be displayed in our very weakness. There is hope as we read 2 Corinthians 12:9:
"My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness. Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me."
It has been said that, “We will parent imperfectly, our children will make their own choices, and God will mysteriously and wondrously use it all to advance his kingdom and for His glory.”
Providentially, Jenny, our Lord will be there for you in the wonderful opportunity He has given you and your husband to train up this child in the power of His strength and His love. And please know that you have our support and prayers. May God bless you!
You have been blessed Jenny with a life that has been woven inside you by the very hand of God. Your baby is being fearfully and wonderfully made. All of his days are written in God's book before he even takes his first breath. Imagine this! There is an eternal, living soul created inside you. God says that children are a heritage of the Lord and the fruit of the womb a reward in Psalm 127:3. God has abundantly blessed you with not one but FIVE blessings! Praise God for His goodness!
As Christian mothers we often hope that our parenting will positively effect the outcome of our children. We hope that if we are consistently patient and understanding or if we can teach them enough scripture then we can love these babies into the kingdom of God. But, it doesn't take long into our parenting to realize that we fail the test daily. Although we are filled with such love and delight in these darlings beyond anything we could have ever imagined we acknowledge that the daily training can be physically and mentally exhausting. Our patience is tried by sleepless nights when our babies are young and possible sleepless nights again when they are teens. A mother's day is filled with fat little chubby squeezes and slobbery kisses but along with those joys come the endless mounds of laundry, dishes, runny noses and a million questions. If we put our hope in our parenting then we will soon become discouraged. But oh what hope we find when our trust and confidence is built on Jesus who calls Himself the author and the finisher of our faith and of our children.
If we are graded on a curve and compare ourselves to other mothers we will always find those who are more patient and consistent in their training than we are. If we compare our children to other children we will surely find those who follow harder after Christ. Most importantly, if we are graded instead on an absolute scale of God’s law—as I believe scripture teaches—we fall short 100% of the time. Even our best efforts at parenting are as filthy rags, dare I say it, a dirty diaper.
The knowledge of our imperfect parenting does not mean that we throw up our arms in despair and say 'why even try?' It means we put first things first when we acknowledge we can do nothing apart from Him as it says in John 15:5. That is why Jesus came to die in our place and give us His perfect record of obedience... because we could never obey the law perfectly to satisfy God's holy requirements. What hope that brings because now my eyes are firmly placed on the only One who can really change a child's heart ... Jesus!
There are many examples in Scripture of parents who BY FAITH put their trust in an all sovereign, wise and powerful God to do what no parent could!
By faith Noah, being warned by God concerning events as yet unseen, in reverent fear constructed an ark for the saving of his household. Hebrews 11:7
By faith Moses, when he was born, was hidden for three months by his parents, because they saw that the child was beautiful, and they were not afraid of the king’s edict. Hebrews 11:23
By faith Isaac blessed Jacob and Esau in regard to their future. Hebrews 11:20
Children will humble us and bring us to our knees so that the Lord’s power can be displayed in our very weakness. There is hope as we read 2 Corinthians 12:9:
"My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness. Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me."
It has been said that, “We will parent imperfectly, our children will make their own choices, and God will mysteriously and wondrously use it all to advance his kingdom and for His glory.”
Providentially, Jenny, our Lord will be there for you in the wonderful opportunity He has given you and your husband to train up this child in the power of His strength and His love. And please know that you have our support and prayers. May God bless you!
Here are a few things I did this week in my home to stretch our income. I'll also post my typical frugal day here!
~ Since I shared a baby devotional with you I thought I'd share the nursing covers I made. These are fun to make! They take 1 yard of material plus an 1/8 of a yard if you want a contrasting color at the bottom. I bought a package of baby washcloths at the dollar store and sewed one into the corner to wipe babies mouth. I found the boning at Joann's. I used a 40 % coupon which helped with the cost of this project making it very affordable. I used this tutorial:
~ I have been freezing bits and pieces of vegetables since this summer. Some veggies were leftovers from our garden that I didn't want to can and some have been smidgeons leftover from our dinners. The shelf is too full. So my goal this week has been to start clearing out that shelf. I threw about 1/3 of the veggies into a soup this week. I defrosted some pumpkin and added it to my chili. I also used a bag of Spicy Tomato Sauce for the chili.
~ I was also given more greeting cards. I will glean through them saving teh ones I think I'll use and then pass the other on to bless someone else. I love to send cards.
~ I am still harvesting Swiss chard, broccoli and kale from our garden. These will likely become winter staples because they are easy to grow, take very little water and last a long time. I tried growing a winter garden when we lived in the 'barn' but it was a flop. I'm glad we didn't give up. Vegetable prices continue to climb and we are saving money by growing veggies by seed. I use the Swiss chard in my eggs and soups and salads. The kale is tough so I only use it in soups.
~ I am still harvesting Swiss chard, broccoli and kale from our garden. These will likely become winter staples because they are easy to grow, take very little water and last a long time. I tried growing a winter garden when we lived in the 'barn' but it was a flop. I'm glad we didn't give up. Vegetable prices continue to climb and we are saving money by growing veggies by seed. I use the Swiss chard in my eggs and soups and salads. The kale is tough so I only use it in soups.
~ I tried something new in my chicken vegetable soup this week. I found a recipe on All Recipes that added 1/2 cup peanut butter to the soup. It made a wonderful addition and you could not detect it was peanut butter.
~ I found 'One Second Needles' at the dollar store this week. Sometimes I'm amazed at what I find there. I bought a few for gifts (and one for me!).
~ I've been composting through the winter. My quick mind did not realize the compost was not breaking down. I read an article that said the compost does not heat up enough to break down the compost during winter months so I'll wait until the weather heats up before I start again.
~ I've been composting through the winter. My quick mind did not realize the compost was not breaking down. I read an article that said the compost does not heat up enough to break down the compost during winter months so I'll wait until the weather heats up before I start again.
~ What I didn't throw away this week in order to stretch my pennies:
- Baggie that I froze LC muffins in. (washed to reuse)
- Sunflower seed plastic bag (washed to reuse)
- Twisty ties (I save these to reuse with above plastic bag)
- Toilet paper cardboard tubes (tore up for compost)
- Twine on a gift card (reuse to tie plants)
- Tea bags (reuse 3 to make one cup of tea)
- Old 2013 calendar (used blank pages for scrap paper)
So how did your week go? Did you learn anything new this week?
Blessed to be home!
Georgene
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